Seven years after separating from my abuser, a nervous breakdown revealed the reality that time alone was not going to heal the horrors of my abuse.
Being separated from my abusive husband didn't make me a domestic violence survivor. It surely didn't release me from the grip of his brainwashing control and the innate power he had over me.
As I started putting my shattered life back together after being separated from my abuser, I still felt his compelling control shaping my every thought and action. I didn't feel like a domestic violence survivor just because I was no longer with my abuser. In fact, I felt like a remote-controlled, confused puppet still shaken by residual influences in my mind.
In order to become a true survivor, knowing that the thoughts in my head were mine, I had to:
Being separated from my abusive husband didn't make me a domestic violence survivor. It surely didn't release me from the grip of his brainwashing control and the innate power he had over me.
As I started putting my shattered life back together after being separated from my abuser, I still felt his compelling control shaping my every thought and action. I didn't feel like a domestic violence survivor just because I was no longer with my abuser. In fact, I felt like a remote-controlled, confused puppet still shaken by residual influences in my mind.
In order to become a true survivor, knowing that the thoughts in my head were mine, I had to:
- Identify the deeply rooted lies of my abuser that I believed were true
- Extract the lies
- Lean on God's strength to defeat the lies and replace them with His word
- Acknowledge that the trauma experienced from the abuse left physical and emotional scars that needed to be furthered explored
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Rock Bottom and Faithless:
Defeating the Lies of Domestic Abuse with God's Truth
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If you or someone you know needs help, please visit the link below for amazing resources in helping victims of domestic violence.
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What is Domestic Violence? What are the signs? Learn more from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
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There are many misconceptions of domestic violence. It's more than bruises, it's complete control mentally.
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"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives." GENESIS 50:20 NIV
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